You’ve been at the school for a long time. You know the whole layout of the school, the best spots to eat lunch, and which of the teachers are really strict. And yet, you still feel like you’re observing all of this from the outside. You see the same group of people laughing together and you wonder: Why hasn’t this happened for me yet? If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Being in a place for a long time doesn’t automatically mean that you’ve found your people. The good